What makes some women so
desperate for love that they will convince themselves that they are in love
with someone who may or may not exist in his own life and definitely does not
exist in hers? I know women fall for
these scammers everyday….but one of the women in my circle is falling now.
She’s not stupid. This woman understands college level science,
holds a good job and cares deeply for her friends and family. Like me, she’s been unlucky and mistreated in
love.
Sometimes, if you eat enough
garbage, it starts to taste good.
The truth is you can NOT love
someone who is not an active part of your life.
That just isn’t love.
Yeah I know there is going to
be someone who says they fell in love online and stayed in love 20 years. More power to you. The truth is you were infatuated and fell in
love with the person later. Risky
business that….but I’m glad it worked out for you. Most of the time, it just doesn’t.
Love is all the tangible and intangible
details that you find absolutely adorable in another person. Its part acceptance, part knowledge, part
shared experiences (the major part) and last but certainly not least, chemical
attraction.
I can email several important
people in the world. Return emails will
bear their electronic signature, actually be accepted in most courts, and yet I
could be talking to their secretary or any number of aides and not them. I don’t know them from email…and they could
easily fool me with a phone call too.
I could post photos of 50
women of different ages and enthnicities and caption my name beneath them and
you could say you saw a picture of me and didn’t realize I was a 12 year old
from the middle east. I could say “
:::giggle, I am:: “ and if you believed me you’d be my fool.
Its downright stupid to say
you love someone you haven’t met and known for a while. What a shallow love that would be without
shared memories or special gazes to spark romance.
I’m smart. I try to remember I’m smarter than a lot of
people, so I try not to judge others too harshly. I don’t think I am being harsh when I say its
foolish to trust or love someone you don’t actually know. I think its obviously impossible and that you
are stupid if you believe that love can be ignorant that way.
Once again there is the “God
gave me to you” words being bantied around.
If I were God, I think I’d be insulted that some silly little human
thought that I didn’t have the power to put love in their ACTUAL pathway. If I
were God, it would bother me when someone claimed to have such great faith but
then accepted such a failing gift as one from me.
Now, if I were Satan, I would
take great delight in what fools humans are and how easy it is to light the
path to misery and poverty and make humans follow me into the life of self
destruction. I’d laugh at God if I were
Satan… I’d laugh at the fools his creations were…and I’d keep them convinced
that they could love strangers.
Its ironic, God’s greatest
gift to humans is love….and the desire for love is Satan’s greatest tool for
destruction.
Smarten up ladies….
