What makes some women so desperate for love that they will convince themselves that they are in love with someone who may or may not exist in his own life and definitely does not exist in hers? I know women fall for these scammers everyday….but one of the women in my circle is falling now.
She’s not stupid. This woman understands college level science, holds a good job and cares deeply for her friends and family. Like me, she’s been unlucky and mistreated in love.
Sometimes, if you eat enough garbage, it starts to taste good.
The truth is you can NOT love someone who is not an active part of your life. That just isn’t love.
Yeah I know there is going to be someone who says they fell in love online and stayed in love 20 years. More power to you. The truth is you were infatuated and fell in love with the person later. Risky business that….but I’m glad it worked out for you. Most of the time, it just doesn’t.
Love is all the tangible and intangible details that you find absolutely adorable in another person. Its part acceptance, part knowledge, part shared experiences (the major part) and last but certainly not least, chemical attraction.
I can email several important people in the world. Return emails will bear their electronic signature, actually be accepted in most courts, and yet I could be talking to their secretary or any number of aides and not them. I don’t know them from email…and they could easily fool me with a phone call too.
I could post photos of 50 women of different ages and enthnicities and caption my name beneath them and you could say you saw a picture of me and didn’t realize I was a 12 year old from the middle east. I could say “ :::giggle, I am:: “ and if you believed me you’d be my fool.
Its downright stupid to say you love someone you haven’t met and known for a while. What a shallow love that would be without shared memories or special gazes to spark romance.
I’m smart. I try to remember I’m smarter than a lot of people, so I try not to judge others too harshly. I don’t think I am being harsh when I say its foolish to trust or love someone you don’t actually know. I think its obviously impossible and that you are stupid if you believe that love can be ignorant that way.
Once again there is the “God gave me to you” words being bantied around. If I were God, I think I’d be insulted that some silly little human thought that I didn’t have the power to put love in their ACTUAL pathway. If I were God, it would bother me when someone claimed to have such great faith but then accepted such a failing gift as one from me.
Now, if I were Satan, I would take great delight in what fools humans are and how easy it is to light the path to misery and poverty and make humans follow me into the life of self destruction. I’d laugh at God if I were Satan… I’d laugh at the fools his creations were…and I’d keep them convinced that they could love strangers.
Its ironic, God’s greatest gift to humans is love….and the desire for love is Satan’s greatest tool for destruction.
Smarten up ladies….